About our Future Wife
Dear Future Hubby,
Please don’t be alarmed by finding this blog. Please don’t dump me, or take the ring back (if you’ve already gotten me one), or decide not to buy a ring (if you haven’t bought one yet). While this might seem quite strange to find me, your future wife, writing a blog to you, someone who your have never met, I assure you that I am not crazy, have a normal pH balance in my brain, and am currently on no medications for any issues. However, I will admit to one thing. One thing that I’m sure many girls will admit to doing every once and a while. I admit that I love weddings and have always thought about what mine would be like and what the road to get there with you would be like. I love the details of the events, the planning, the dresses, the flowers. I’m sure you’ve already gathered this about me as I’m sure I’ve probably forced you to sit at home on a Friday night watching Say Yes To The Dress. Despite what you may think, my life is NOT consumed by weddings, or thinking about weddings. I have a steady job, a great group of friends, go to the gym every day, spend a lot of time talking about pop culture, celeb gossip, and sports, get drunk on a regular basis, facebook stalk people, and have late night dance parties.
When I started this, it started out as a forum for me to tell you what I wanted and what I didn’t want in a wedding. Don’t get me wrong, I can talk about weddings till the cows come home. However, I quickly realized that in order to even get to the wedding portion of a relationship, there needs to be a relationship. I need to find you. So consider this your blue print. Your treasure map. A way into my inner psyche that doesn’t require you to buy me a glass of wine, pull out my car, or open my car door.
I am using this forum to document my journey through life to find you, letting you know exactly what I think about certain things like dates, interactions, love, relationships, grand gestures etc. Think of this as a big open book test into what I look for in a guy and a relationship. If I write a letter to you saying I don’t like first dates that require me to get dirty, don’t take me camping. I won’t go out with you again.
And maybe, just maybe, if you still think I’m awesome (which I am) and aren’t horribly offended by the idea of getting married in Ireland, well, then you’ve already got the blue print to that relationship milestone as well. Congrats.
So don’t be concerned by everything you read here. It’s all in good fun and not the least bit serious. Nothing is set in stone…yet. Just kidding.
Love,
Your future wife
PS: We’re probably going to need to be multi-millionaires or win the lotto to afford any of my ideas, so we better get on that, pronto.
Love your honesty. I’ll admit I did a little research pre-engagement. You are not alone!
So glad to know I’m not alone. Doesn’t every little girl dream about their wedding at some point?
Love this! will definitely be checking in often!
haha…love your brashness! Very cool idea for a blog!
P.S. I don’t like getting dirty either and fortunately my husband (or else he wouldn’t be my husband now lol!) took me out for a nice fancy dinner on our first date….yet now we tend to do more “roughing it” stuff than usual! Thankfully, one of the activities we agree on and both enjoy is camping!
awwww sweety, you will make the most lovely bride! I just pray for you dear that god soon fulfills this beautiful dream of yours.
Hi! Just ran across you from Simply Solo’s blogroll and have enjoyed reading Dear Future Hubby. I just recently started a blog, and in a way I think it’s similar to yours, but from a bit different perspective (being male and divorced).
Best of luck in your quest! *cheers*
just found your blog and love it. But might I advise you not to have the wedding in Ireland….purely for aesthetic reasons as it RAINS all the time. No I am not joking it really does on my wedding day I woke to sunshine, had rain when entering the church, sunshine leaving the church, hailstones when having photos done and then it snowed on route to reception, my brother has a candid shot of my trying to get snow out hair, veil and cleavage! All of this in the month of april. hope your dreams come true are here is an irish blessing to help you
May love and laughter light your days,
and warm your heart and home.
May good and faithful friends be yours,
wherever you may roam.
May peace and plenty bless your world
with joy that long endures.
May all life’s passing seasons
bring the best to you and yours!
just found your blog and love it. But might I advise you not to have the wedding in Ireland….purely for aesthetic reasons as it RAINS all the time. No I am not joking it really does on my wedding day I woke to sunshine, had rain when entering the church, sunshine leaving the church, hailstones when having photos done and then it snowed on route to reception, my brother has a candid shot of my trying to get snow out hair, veil and cleavage! All of this in the month of april. hope your dreams come true and as the old irish proverb goes
A man cannot grow rich without his wife’s leave.
Cute… #justsaying