Dear Future Hubby,
I find it fitting that I’m writing this entry as my BFF to the max, girl who is going to be my MOH whenever I find one of you worthy enough, KHiggers, is winging her way here to Los Angeles for a ridiculous weekend of day drinking at Disneyland, saying stupid shit, being girly, and of course, seeing The Hunger Games. We clearly have our priorities. She, along with my small group of super close friends, are probably the opinions I value the most, especially when it comes to guys.
Last summer, I started casually dating this great guy. After realizing this was the first time in a while that I had actually LIKED someone (and liked him enough to not even mention him on this blog till now), I slowly started telling a small select group of friends about him. He was funny, he was smart, and most importantly, he “got me.” While most of my friends thought our relationship was adorable and that he really liked me, KHiggers didn’t like him from the start, mainly due to the fact that when I recounted our first date, she was appalled by some of his behavior and attitude towards me. Even though she is my BFF, I took the opinion with a grain of salt moving forward since everyone else seemed to think he was the cat’s pajamas just like I did. Next time this happens to me, someone please remind me to ALWAYS listen to KHiggers. Always. There is a reason the girl is my best friend.
So FH, at the end of the day, you have to remember what you’re stepping into. I’ve known them a lot longer than I’ve known you. I trust them with my life and I know that they have my back. They will have no problem giving me their honest opinion of you (especially KHiggers) and if you do break my heart, get ready for them to start telling me (and probably you) that they think you’re a complete and total douchelord that should be dropped immediately.